Monday, March 31, 2008

Semana Santa and Other Updates





Happy belated Easter everyone. In Paraguay holy week is called Semana Santa and it is a big deal, and not so much a big deal all in one. It’s a big enough deal for schools to be shut down all week, for people to take off work, for families to gather and make 5-20 kilos of a traditional bread-like, non-sweet donut, have a few more masses than normal but not enough to actually even acknowledge Easter on Sunday. By Sunday, all the chipa making, family gathering, and masses seem to be over. I didn’t even remember it was Easter when Sunday finally came around.

During semana santa Monday and Tuesday aren’t very important. School is still held like normal on Monday and Tuesday, even though there are classes being held, what is mostly happening at school are these very dramatic reenactments of the crucification of Christ. I saw one of these last year during semana santa when I was in training and figured that was enough. Somehow watching high school kids whip the boy playing Jesus with pieces of leather that actually leave marks on his body and seeing him carry a rather heavy looking cross in circles around the high school campus and everyone following him around saying prayers that I didn’t have memorized in Spanish fulfilled all my curiosities. This year on Tuesday, I helped a friend clean her yard out with my new machete and prepare for a garden.

On Wednesday, I went with my host family to Concepcion for grandma’s 80th bday party. I think Mirtha, my host mom thought I wouldn’t want to go spend the day at an 80th bday party so was very ambiguous with me when I asked when they would be leaving. I was afraid I would wake up and everyone would be gone already and I’d be alone to entertain myself that day since I hadn’t made plans with any other families to make chipa that day. So, I got up really early and went over to the family’s house and sure enough, they were packing up to go and Mirtha said “Jaha” which means “let’s go” in Guarani. I grabbed my camera and backpack filled with Uno, pick up sticks, and a people magazine (prepared for possible boredom) and hopped on a bus with Mirtha, Gino (12), Albaro (6) and Luhan (1). We arrived in Concepcion and immediately abuela (grandma in spanish) was thrilled to have us there. That was the first time she met me and she didn’t seem too confused as to why there was an American with them. She only smiled and said I was tall and before I knew it I was sitting next to her listening to her complain about her cataracts and sore gums for 2 hours. Somehow everyone else seemed to be busy. The women were busy preparing lunch in the kitchen, the men were drinking terere under a tree somewhere, and Gino and the other kids were playing playstation in another room. (yes, playstation 1 has made it all over Paraguay and it’s a big hit, but few families can afford it) I didn’t mind having alone time with abuela, it had been awhile since I had gotten my old people fix. She was hilarious too, she kept telling me the gossip of the family, that mirtha’s husband had children from a previous woman, etc, etc. She would look around and make sure no one was watching then, leak more secrets. I enjoyed it since it’s hard to get the truth out of anyone in a very indirect culture where no one tells you anything more than necessary. We had a nice lunch, I took some pictures, played some video games and then we went back to Horqueta.




Wednesday and Thursday are the big chipa making days. All the women get together and spend 3 + hours making chipa from scratch. This is the biggest tradition of Semana santa and an important one since on holy Friday nobody eats anything…except chipa. It’s like a fast, only you are not cleansing your body, you are filling it with lard and cheese. Chipa is to semana santa like turkey is to Thanksgiving for us, or you all. I don’t eat it, maybe I’ll switch to chipa for thanksgiving too. To make chipa you get a big round, shallow plastic bucket called a palongana. These are what Paraguayans use for everything. For washing clothes in, for bathing their small children in, for giving themselves pedicures, to wash dishes in and to make chipa. I think the one we used had been used to bathe the one year old earlier that morning. My coordinator who is the volunteer that I followed up was visiting for Semana Santa because she lived with the same host family. She and I were following the instructions of Mirtha and making the chipa on our own for most of the time. We poured in a bunch of flour, Paraguayan cheese, some milk, some anis, 36 eggs and mixed it all together with our hands for a long, long time. We then kneaded it for a long, long time. My arms and hands were so tired I thought I would never finish. Finally Mirtha and my host sister Agustina began to help. We rolled the dough into the traditional shapes that Paraguayans use and then we threw in some stars, turtles, letters and other fun shape jus to add an American touch. When the abuela that lives next door to us came over she looked at the mess the Americans made and all the funny shapes and mumbled something in Guarani about what a catastrophe this had turned into and dug into the palongana and finished off the kneading and rolling. She made 10 chipa for every one I made in half the time. We then laid fresh banana leaves on a cake pan, put the dough on the pan and put it in a fire-heated outdoor oven. The first batch came out burned but each batch got better and better. We successfully made the 5 kilos and I probably ate about 4 of them.

Friday morning the entire town visited the cemetery, which happens to be located 2 blocks from my house. Everyone goes to visit their loved ones and they sing at their grave. They don’t sing Gloria Estefan, they sing hymns and if you sing really loud, you’re given chipa (as if anyone needs any more) and candy. I didn’t sing, since I had no relatives to visit but I did stand there and take pictures and film like a tourist for a while. After visiting the cemetery everyone eats chipa till about 2pm and then when that gets old they start drinking sangria or wine with ice and soda and or cold beer. Some people go to mass, but in my neighborhood, not many people go, so I sat and integrated meaning, I drank a lot of beer with my host family and neighbors and my coordinator. It was good times. On good Friday there is a small sort of parade around town that ends at the main church. They do this at dark and play music on a stereo along the way. Good Friday in Spanish is Dia de los Dolores, which literally means Day of Pains. That also means if you know anyone named Dolores, her name means pain. Anyways….that is basically what Easter is like in Paraguay. It was not big and flashy like it was in Spain and it’s not as carnival-ish as it is in other parts of Central and South America I’ve heard but it’s definitely fun and interesting. This was my 2nd Semana Santa in Paraguay and since I don’t finish service until the end of April 2009, I will see another one and become an expert chipa maker.

Next year, I am going to have an Easter egg hunt and liven things up a little bit since nobody does anything on Sunday. I don’t think I’ll find an Easter bunny suit to hop around in for the kids, though I’m sure they’d get a kick out of that. When explaining our traditions they were surprised enough that bunnies had anything to do with Easter. That would be fun. Hope your holy week was wonderful even though you had to go to work and school and survive without chipa.

Now that Semana Santa is over, I am finally able to start working in schools again. Even though school starts at the end of Feb, it doesn’t really start until now. Many kids are out picking cotton and sesame until now and therefore attendance is really low in schools. Many families can’t afford uniforms until after they pick cotton. Sesame prices are really good right now because Asia had a bad harvest so the supply has gone down. Farmers in Paraguay that could barely eat last year are now buying new motos here. Of course who knows what next year will bring. I wanted to go out and pick cotton one day just to see what it was like but the only family I knew was going was a family I didn’t want to spend an entire day with. I’ve heard it’s really hard to make money that way because they pay by the kilo and cotton doesn’t way very much. I think it’s less than a dollar a kilo but my next door neighbors were able to earn about $50 in a week because they are “expert pickers”. That’s a lot of money here but it’s tough labor.

So, now that cotton is picked, sesame harvested, uniforms purchased, I am back to work in schools, in the afterschool program, and teaching firedancing class on Saturdays. I have 12 students ranging in age from 10 to 47 who want to learn the firedancing movements. We made equipment out of string and plastic bottles to swing around and they are loving it. One mother asked me if it was really safe to do this and I wanted to tell her “if letting your child ride a motorcycle without a helmet and cut grass with a machete and swinging around a plastic bottle isn’t, then I don’t know what to say” But I smiled and assured her the kids would never use fire and it was perfectly safe.

The youth group work has had its ups and downs but the group seems really focused right now and connected. They are even talking about doing a project right now and fundraising for it. I also did an essay contest at a school to celebrate world women’s day and grades 6-9 participated. I had them write about a woman they admire and answer questions about her. 25 students participated and there was a winner from each grade. I got the library to donate library cards and I got some pencils and a ruler and a button from Rachel that said things like “there’s more than books in your library” in Spanish that Rachel’s mom sent down. The winners read their essays in front of their parent’s at a parents meeting and we read some essays on our radio program. A Peace Corps committee I am a part of called GAD, Gender and Development liked the project and now everyone else in the committee is going to replicate the essay contest in their sites for mother’s day. 

Maura, the secretary of the school I met awhile ago helped tremendously with the project and is in my firedancing class too. I am teaching her English now and just finished a class I taught with my host siblings. Gino and Agustina are doing really well with their English and now Agustina says things to me like “my boyfriend is ugly” and “you are crazy” haha. I was able to give them certificates through Peace Corps that says they took an English class and completed 20 hours of study. They will be able to put that on their resume. They want to keep studying with me and go on to level 2. I’m glad because I really like teaching them and it’s a great way to hang out with them.

In addition to working with youth, in my spare time I am teaching them the possibility of training pigs. I already surprised them with the ability to train a dog, I figured why not take it further and show them you can actually train a pig. So, I trained the little pig how to sit for a treat. I was a little surprised myself but they really get a kick out of it. The only problem is that now Lucy is jealous of the pig and hardly ate her food last week. I guess I’ll have to give up the pig training for awhile.

That’s all the updates for now. Miss you all!

Vacation Pics...Finally!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Sweaty White Girl with Red Face





This week marks the start of another school year and the doors of opportunities are opening themselves up to me again. My days of relaxing and catching up on my people magazines and novel reading are over. I will soon be busy working in the schools again, teaching life skills to young teens. I am actually very excited about this and ready to have my weeks fly by again because i am running around on my bike, preparing lessons and going to teacher's meetings. I am not required to work in schools, i just choose to because it's a great environment to get youth to listen and participate in activities. There are a lot of schools in Horqueta and I do not have time to work in all of them so I was starting to wonder which ones I should spend my time in.

Just when I started to debate which school really wanted a volunteer working with them, which ones obviously didn't appreciate me, which ones were too far away from my neighborhood, etc I became a little overwhelmed with my decision making. I love making my own schedule but I feel that going into my second year of service, i shouldn't waste time in places that don't really need or want me. I should have all this figured out now, but I'm not quite sure that I do.

Luckily, just a couple weeks ago, i met a remarkable woman who REALLY, REALLY REALLY wants to work WITH me. Her name is Maura and she came to a workshop i did with an Education volunteer at another school last November. She isn't a teacher at the school i did a workshop at but she was invited by her friend who works there. I took it as a good sign she came to a workshop that wasn't even at her school, because she was so interested in what we had to teach. Ever since then she's been inviting me over to her house. I finally went to her house after I got back from vacation. She made me juice, showed me pictures, talked about her family and asked about me. AFter 30 min of small talk, she started telling me that she's told her school all about me and they really want to invite me to work there. I asked about the school and found out it is very close to my house, it is kindergarden up through 9th grade and it's a very nice, progresive school. I then found out she is the sister of Pedro, a man i work with at an afterschool program on wednesdays. He is a very nice guy and right away I could tell this entire family was an amazing, educated, well doing group of people. I became even more excited when she showed me her bookshelf filled with books about sexuality, HIV/AIDS information and self esteem books for teens. She said that she wants these things taught at her school and although she works in the administration part of the school, she knows other teachers would love to work with me teaching this. I was in such shock that i didn't have to explain these things to her or why it's important to teach them to teens. She already knew and was actually asking me to help. She then sat at her very own computer and began to type out a plan of action for working with me. I sat on her couch (couches are rare in Paraguay) and watched as she typed out her plan for working with me to "better the lives of youth so they can become useful members of society". I was completely amazed, and watched as she ran around like an energizer bunny, serving more juice, typing at her computer, and running back and forth to her bookshelf to show me more materials. She also has a very contagious, loud, unique laugh and every time she laughed I would become a little scared, but then laugh along with her.

We made a plan for me to go to the school this Thursday and I would meet all the teachers and show them what I had to offer. She asked if i would give a sample lesson on self esteem with the teachers. I was very excited about this, since no one at any other school has ever asked what I am doing with their students and don't seem to care. Ater we talked about business, i met her entire family, who all live on the property and they said whenver I am sad or want to get out of my house, i can come visit them, since they are a happy family. They also have a car, which is extremely unusual for Paraguayans and said they would take me out to their farm someday. Maura and her siblings have never been married, all of them were either going to be nuns or priests but decided that wasn't the life for them and they all pursued education instead of marrying at 18 and having children. They are amazing people and I am thanking my lucky stars that they have come into my life.

I wanted to make sure i knew where this new school was so i could find it on Thursday morning. So on Monday, i biked around trying to find it. I asked several
people where it was and I got several different answers. I rode around, working up a really heavy sweat. It was 4:00 in the afternoon and it was a scorching hot day. When I finally found the school, i got off my bike and decided to take a walk around the school grounds to get a feel for the size and see if they had room to plant trees (thinking a tree planting project would be a fun thing to do with them) and since the school was deserted I didn't mind snooping around. I was wearing my soccer shorts and a grey tank top that was soaked with sweat, especially the middle part where my fat roll created a solid sweat line accross my stomach. The only person I saw was a man mowing the lawn. Then, as i turned a corner I came face to face with Maura, my new friend and contact. She was very excited to see me and said "Jill, what are you doing here?" I explained i was on a bike ride and wanted to see if i could find the school. She grabbed my arm and said "come on over here, i am here with my co-workers" My heart started beating really fast as I realized what my appearance looked like. i crossed my fingers and hoped that there would not be many people around the corner.

As we turned the corner, i saw all the teachers sitting in a circle drinking terere in their nice teach uniforms. Turns out, they were having a meeting outside and someone saw me strolling around. They told me to take a seat and everyone leaned forward and started staring at me, asking questions and smiling. Maura, said "this ist he girl i've been telling you about" And then everyone began commenting on how red my face looked, and doing the typical Paraguayan woman friendly gossip. this is when paraguayan women talk about you like you're not there but it's a very indirect way of talking to you, and it's all done in a friendly way. They said "look how red her face is...looking how much she's sweating, look how wet her shirt is, look even her arms are sweating." they also said nice things like "look how pretty her eyes are, they're green! and what a pretty girl, etc" I took a hankerchief out of my bag and began wiping away my sweat only to have it return just seconds later. Maura sat next to me and served me terere for 10 minutes, without serving to anyone else. I was so embarrased but also knew this would be such a funny story to tell people later, and i am used to awkward situations now. We talked a little bit about where i was from, and what i have done for the past year in Horqueta. Everyone seemed very nice and excited to have me come show them what kinds of things we can do at the school.

I left the school and when i went home and told Mirtha, my host mom about what had just happened she laughed and said "well, at least they'll think you'll look really good on Thursday." I said "yes, that's true" and the teachers were inpressed with the fact I wanted to see the school before Thursday and were also impressed I was riding my bike in the heat of the day. They thought I was so "hard working" haha.

Sweat has never affected my life so much as it has in Paraguay. I sweat way more than Paraguayans and my face turns red. I will never be used to this heat or the fact that whatever temperature it is outside is what it is inside. Yesterday my floor fan bit the dust and I could not stop sweating even though i was just sitting in my house doing nothing. I decided to take a picture of what I look like just sitting in my house on a hot day. Sorry for the disgusting visual but i just thought it would add to the story!

Wish me luck on Thursday and pray that it's not a really hot day!

Monday, February 11, 2008

A Trip to The Optometrist





When I was telling this story to my friend she was laughing so hard i realized I had to share with all of you.

Before I left for vacation, I noticed I had been having a bit of strain in my eyes when i read for a long time. Since school has been out, I´ve been able to read all those Newsweek and People magazines that have been stacking up, in addition to the stack of books other volunteer´s have been passing on to me. When i tried out another volunteer´s low prescription reading glasses I noticed a big difference. I didn´t want to give them back so she said "why don´t you just tell Peace Corps you want to get your eyes checked, they pay for one pair of glasses during your service you know" I said "okay, i will"

I scheduled an appointment for the day before I left for vacation, since all appointments have to be done in the capital. (anywhere else in the country and nothing would be up to Par for Peace Corps standards) I was given a map from the Peace Corps doctor to find the office of an optometrist. I navigated my way to a small office not far from the Peace Corps office. DR. Sulfini was his name and he looked to be about 75-80 years old. While I waited, his young secretary took down all my information onto a 5 x 7 blank card. She started asking me questions like my name, my age, my maritial status, my job, my address, etc. The questions didn´t seem that out of the ordinary but the answers she was writing down would never be sufficient back home. For my address she literally just wrote Horqueta, the name of my city. Then she made a comment about how far away that was and talked about how she had never traveled that far north. At some point during this process another man entered the waiting room and sat down in a chair next to me. After he told her his name, she went into another room and returned with his "File" which was also the same kind of 5x 7 card. It was then I realized this was the most advanced my "file" was ever going to get. No, folders, no papers to fill out, no clipboards handed to me asking my medical history or insurance information. Just an ordinary 5 x 7 card you would buy in a big packet at a stationary store! I had to restrain myself from laughing as she read from the card "the last time you were here was in January two years ago, you received a new prescription, etc" I smiled and thought "well, the system seems to work just fine" Then I calmly waited to be seen by the eye doc.

When Dr. Sulfini called me into his office, I felt like I was walking into a scene in a movie. The room was dimly lit and he sat behind a big, dark wood desk. Behind him was a bookshelf filled with books that looked more like antique decorations than the latest publications in the world of eye medicine. On the desk and scattered about the room were other contraptions that also looked like antique decorations, models of equipment that was used in the 1940s. While part of me marveled at these things (i love antiques) another part of me really wondered if these were still the things he used to perform eye exams. As he glanced over my file, he asked me a few questions about my eyes, my history and what the problem seemed to be. I told him I thought i need reading glasses. He tried to impress me with a little bit of English but i realized i just prefered if he spoke in Spanish so i switched back to the language in which i could really understand him better in. He told me he was going to exam my eyes in the other room (and i breathed a sigh of relief that perhaps he did have more modern equipment)

When I was led into the other room, my sigh of relief creeped back up into my throat. In front of me was a giant contraption that looked like it was out of a horror movie. I couldn´t tell what the original paint color used to be, but i think rust seemed to be the new color. I sat down in the chair and he made some adjustments to it, commenting on what a tall girl i was. He moved some things, tweaked a few screws (probably put a little oil on it when i wasn´t watching) and then put some contraption on my face and told me to recite the letters on the other side of the room. We finished the right eye exam successfully. He discovered i did have trouble see far distances and tried several lenses. He also discovered what prescription allowed me to read up close better. He said i would need a separate pair of glasses for far distance and reading. I knew Peace Corps would only pay for one and since i don´t drive here, and there are no street signs or anything really for me to read at any distance, i decided to only request reading glasses. We continued with the left eye exam and were almost done when the electricity went out (a common occurence in Paraguay). We waited for 20 min and it never came back on. Sine i couldn´t come back the next day he decided to finsih without electricity.

He asked his secretary for a flashlight and asked her to hold it on the cards I was reading, not 2 min later the battery died. I couldn´t stop myself from laughing, as i then saw him take the antique looking oil lamp from his desk and ask his secretary for lamp oil. As she was searching for it i thought "oh my god, i can´t believe this is happening" We then finished my eye exam by the light of an oil lamp and he assured me this would have no effect on the results. He was quite sure what prescription i needed and handed me a slip of paper to take to the eye glasses store. I thanked him kindly and headed over to pick out some cute frames.

I met a friend at the eye glasses place and with her help picked out some frames that I love. They are purple and a little funky but also still give me a professional feel. I picked them up after vacation and i was a little worried I wouldn´t be able to see a thing through them because of how the exam went but they are great. Now, i can read for hours and use my computer and all those little words look so much better! I will post a picture of me and my new look when i get a chance! Next time I will have a little more faith in how things were done back in the 1940s at the eye doctor!

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Vacation and Sun Poisening Don´t Mix!

ahhh, vacation. Even volunteers need vacation every once in awhile. As a peace corps volunteer I acrew 2 vacation days a month. That´s 24 days a year you are thinking, "that is more than i get and I have a real job" But it´s not as many as it sounds. We don´t get weekends as peace corps volunteers, we can´t leave our communities even on sat and sun, and often times most of our work is on the weekends since that´s when people can meet. (doesn´t mean we don´t sneak a few days here and there to save our sanity) Well other than my few days here and there in Asuncion, the capital and visits to other volunteer´s sites my sanity was telling me that I could really use a "real" vacation. So, I counted up my vacation days and decided to take 13 days to leave the country. I filled out my vacation request form, submitted it to Peace Corps, dusted off my South American travel book, got 3 other volunteers on board and started planning "Big Mama goes to the Beach" (The name we gave our vacation. Loren and Rosana-both urban youth volunteers that arrived the same time I did and Sarah, a beekeeping volunteer who lives close to me decided to go to Buenos Aires (BA for short) and Uruguay.

We took an 18 hour bus ride from Asuncion to BA. We were more excited than 4 little girls on their way to Disneyland. We made a rule that we were not allowed to talk about anything related to our Paraguayan Peace Corps lives. We weren´t allowed to discuss sad situations we were dealing with or complain about work stuff. It didn´t take but a couple hours to realize we didn´t have a whole lot to talk about with that rule. Our lives before Peace Corps kind of seem so distant now that it´s hard to keep a conversation going involving things only from more than a year ago or only talking about the future. So we accepted who we are now, people who talk about Paraguay and changed the rule to only being able to talk about happy things about our service.

We arrived in Buenos Aires and immediately recognized why Argentina is a developed country and Paraguay is not. We rode nice, clean buses that had handicap access and didn´t break down all the time. Every street was paved, i had forgotten what that looked like! We were so content to eat in restaurants and shop in cute stores, see book stores and book stands everywhere because people actually read and could see all the culture and museums and parks and people with healthy, fat dogs being walked on leashes! Then somebody said "hey you guys...it´s been 2 hours we´ve been walking around I am not sweating and my feet are still clean" For about 2 hours all we did was talk about these differences and then we were adjusted and started to forget what it was like in Paraguay....we were in vacation mode.

We stayed 2 days and 2 nights in BA and did a whirlwind tour of the city. We saw tango shows in the streets, drank wine and ate cheese in the parks, visited the famous Recoletta cemetary and saw Evita´s tomb, went to ourdoor markets, saw the famous plazas and congress buildings and enjoyed good food. Buenos Aires is known to be the "Paris of South America" and it really is. I enjoyed it more than i enjoyed Madrid, Spain.

On day 3 we took a ferry from BA to Uruguay. This trip only takes an hour if you are on a fast boat but our ferry was more of a mini cruise, complete with cafeteria, bar, and a Latin dance show. We enjoyed this very much and became very excited about being on the water and so close to our beach part of the vacation. When we arrived in Uruguay, we spent a few hours tootling around the quaint town of Colonia which is kind of known for being a cute, little town Argentinian couples for for a weekend gettaway. Then we took a bus to the capital, Montevideo. We spent 2 days in Montevideo, walking around the city, sitting at the rocky coastline, and once again eating good food. Our favorite was the mozzarella pizza in Uruguay because it was much more like real pizza than the Pizza in Paraguay.

On day 5 we traveled by bus to Punta del Este, the most famous tourist spot in Uruguay and becoming one of the most famous tourist spots in South America. Many Hollywood movie stars have homes there and now i know why. It is a small penninsula filled with designer stores, expensive restaurants, nice beaches and a nightlife that has a great reputation. This isn´t excatly my scene but we wanted to at least see what this place was all about. Everything was out of our price range and when Sarah didn´t even get served right away at the McDonald´s because she was undressed we realized we weren´t in our kind of place. I had heard the surf was supposed to be really good and even that didn´t seem to be as great as i hoped. There was a lot of onshore winds and whitecaps so the surf was blown out. I rented a board anyway and they gave me a free wetsuit to use. I thought "hey great, a free wetsuit" but when i put it on i realized why it was free. THe entire back part of it was torn open, exposing most of my back. I decided it was still better than nothing and wore it anyway in front of some of the richest people on the continent. I surfed for a few hours then laid on the beach for another 9 hours. even though my friends were telling me i should not stay out so long i couldn´t help it. this was what i missed most and what relaxed me the most....laying on sand, hearing the waves, feeling the ocean breeze. What i wasn´t thinking about was the effect of the sun. "I´m Paraguayan now, i get worse exposure in Paraguay, i can take this" I was wrong. On the first day in Punta del Este I got a bad case of sun poisening.

I had sun poisening once before, when i was in France. That time it lasted only a day or so. Apparently the 2nd time you get it, it´s a lot worse. I was in bed for 4 days after that with a 102 fever, vomiting,chills, exhaustion, diahrehea, and of course a lot of sun blisters. Stupid me. The good news is that I didn´t really miss much, i saw Punta del Este on my first day and didn´t miss hanging out with the rich kids in our hostel, hearing about how they had been traveling around the world for the past 4 months on mom and dad´s money or how they graduated college 3 months ago and looking for a job was such hard work that they´re parents agreed they "needed a break." (these are real stories that my friends got to hear) But when people asked what we they were doing, they enjoyed saying "we´ve been living in Paraguay doing development work for the past year" My friends spent more time on the beach and took good care of me. I fully recovered and they said i looked better than all of them with my new tan and my amazing stomach after loosing 10 pounds and my crash diet. Rosana our mexican american friend kept saying "i want sun poisening so i can loose weight but i won´t get it, i´ll just turn black"

On day 8 we left the ritzy life of Punta for a more relaxing, mellow, normal person beach town called La Paloma in Costa Azul. We rented a beach house for 3 nights and immediately decided we should have rented it for a week instead because it was perfect. There were two rooms, a kitchen to cook in, a nice living room area with cable TV, a yard with equipment to barbeque and it was one block from the beach. I felt well enought to play in the water some more before we left but the surf was still bad.

ON day 11 we traveled back to Buenos Aires on a fast boat that only took an hour, but there were no Latin dancers. WE stayed two more nights in Buenos Aires before taking a 22 hour bus ride back to Paraguay on day 13. It should have been 18 hours but we spent 4 hours at the border waiting to cross. The waiting gave us a good opportunity to get back into the habit of the slow pace of life in Paraguay.

Uruguay was more similar to Paraguay than Argentina but it was still much more developed. Before vacation Paraguay seemed to me to be very isolated and after this vacation i have realized how isolated it is. There are no natural resources here I am sure that has a lot to do with it´s lagging behind. The countrysides of Urguay and Argentina are still very vast and open but the land just seemed richer. The crops looked better, there were plantations of trees and evidence of real farm equipment like tractors and irrigation systems. Roads were better, there were street signs, there was not nearly as much poverty. As depressing as it was to see all of this and realize how bad off Paraguay really is, it was refreshing to see that Paraguay´s neighbors are doing better and that hopefully this is influencing them in a positive way. Paraguay has been through a lot and had a rough history, development is slow and i have faith one day it won´t be so isolated. And maybe one day a traveler will want to take a bus to Paraguay from Buenos Aires to see what an interesting place it is.

I am happy to be back in site, and I do feel refreshed and re-motivated for another year of service.Paraguayans have a much different culture and blunt way of saying things so people keep telling me how skinny i am now (actually I just weigh what i used to weigh before eating all their fatty fried food) and my host mom even went so far as to say i looked like i was pregnant before so i must have had my baby and left it in Uruguay! Haha, that´s a compliment and i´ve been here long enough to recognize it as one! I have only put a dent in my vacation days and although i´m glad to be where I am I already can´t wait to plan my next vacation. This week marks excatly one year in country for me. I arrived on Feb 8th of last year. This doesn´t mean i am excatly half way done though. Our 3 months of training doesn´t count in our 2 years of service so I will actually be halfway through service at the end of April. Then the 12 month countdown will begin and I am told it goes fast!

Although I used my vacation time to travel in South America instead of flying home, i do feel a little more connected with the 1st world again. The American girls we met in hostels gave us updates on what celebrity broke up with who and informed us Heath Leger died, what kind of Ipod is out now, what movies are playing, etc. It was entertaining and fun to get our heads out of the 3rd world for awhile. I find myself enjoying that kind of news more than i ever have in my life. It keeps me balanced i think. So keep me updated on what´s going on in the 2008 elections, who is turning up dead and being found by the maid, what diet is popular and keep reading my blog to hear about my next adventure or day to day life!

Jajotopata! (we shall find each other)

Monday, January 14, 2008

A Biking/Bus Adventure

It seems like every couple of months, when the stress of my life in the "city" aka town of 10,000 people in Horqueta gets the best of me and and I trip to Asuncion, the capital isn´t possible, I want nothing more than to leave site to explore the country a bit and pretend I am just a travler instead of a volunteer, I like to go visit my surrounding Peace Corps neighbors. I live in a city and since most of my neighbors live in rural sites and need to come do their shopping and internet usage I see them often. They stay at my house, they know my family, they see my work and the people I work with and have a pretty good idea of what my life is like. On the other hand, I never get to see what their life is like and their work since they are always visiting me. I´ve made it a personal goal to try and visit all my neighbors sites and see the major projects they work on. I don´t usually have time to visit much during the school year but since it´s summer and I am in vacation mode, i have been accepting a lot of invitations.

Last week, i received two invitations from Nayelli (a health volunteer) and Sarah (a beekeeper) Nayelli wanted me to come help her build a fagon (a large brick oven) and Sarah wanted me to do a self esteem lesson with her kids at her summer camp. I accepted both invitations. Thursday morning i woke up at 5:30 packed up my small backback, left enough food and water for my dog, Lucy for a couple of days, then headed out of Horqueta on my bike. I had ridden to Nayelli´s site before but got lost. I was confident i wouldn´t get lost this time but realized my bike tire was really low. Nothing was open for awhile but i finally came to a Gomeria "bike shop" and stopped to fill up my tire. A teenage girl was sweeping the dirt outside (yes you heard me, sweeping dirt is a morning activity here) and she yelled for her mother to come help me. A woman came out and i said i wanted to fill my tire, so she went inside a brought out a huge machine. It took 20 min or so for the machine to start working properly and eventually my tire was filled (free of charge) and I continued on my way. About 15 miles later, I arrived at Nayelli´s house and drank terere (ice cold tea) with her family. I unloaded my stuff, took a quick trip to the latrine and met up with her down the road at the house she was working at that day.

They had already started working on the fagone and had the ground layer done when i arrived. Health volunteers spend their time teaching prevention from parasites, dental health, how to build sanitary latrines and fagones. Many people in the campo cook on open fire in a room on the floor. It´s unhealthy because the smoke fills the room and they have to bend over and lift heavy pots onto the fire. Fagons are brick ovens that use a chimney and have a stovetop and oven. Nayelli was successful in getting materials for 14 fagons in her community from the mayor in Horqueta. The community had to plant 20 trees to offset the wood they would be burning for the stove.

I dived right into the work following the instructions of Nayelli. The men that were there were not used to seeing women do this kind of work. Most were very nice but a couple were jerks, acting like women couldn´t do this kind of thing and were standing over us breathing down our necks, for periods of time. WE worked from 8am to 5pm, with lots of terere breaks and a lunch break. WE finished the entire thing and even got to test the chimney. Laying bricks is a lot harder than i thought, making it even is tricky but i got better throughout the day. After we finished we went to a swimming hole with the family and I attempted to swing off a rope swing but couldn´t hold onto the rope as well as the kids and ended up falling straight into the water each time instead of soaring like they did!

We went back to her house, ate some dinner and crashed. The next morning i woke up at 5:15am and took a 5:30 but from her site to Concepcion, a bigger city than Horqueta. I spent a few hours in Concepcion, then went to look for a bus that would take me to L. Petit, sarah´s site. She told me there was only one bus that went to her site at 11:30 but that there may be one earlier that would drop me close by. I walked up to a colorful, old, run down looking school bus that was just about to leave at 10:30 and asked the driver if he was going to L. Petit. He said no and then i asked if he was going anywhere near L. Petit. He said no again and i was ready to give up when i saw my neighbor from Horqueta. He asked where i was trying to go and then he and the driver exchanged a few words in Guarani and told me to get on. I asked if he was going to take me to L. Petit and he once again said no. I was so confused but before I could make my decision, a man took my bike and passed it up to a little boy who was on the roof of the bus and then the bus started to move, so i hopped on. I sat down on hot fake leather seats next to a bunch of cargo and some interested faces, then fell asleep. I was aware that I had no idea where this bus was going or when it would get there but i was okay with that fact and was very exhausted.

When I woke up, i realized the bus was stopped in front of a church that said Filadelfia. "FILADELFIA!" I thought, "That´s like 4 hours north of concepcion!" I then realized we were not in Filadelfia, it was just a sign and the driver was motioning me to get off the bus because this was my stop. I looked around and saw that we were stopped at a T crossing. I asked what direction L. Petit was in but couldn´t understand his answer, then he tried to charge me 20 mil when i know it should be 10 or less. When i handed him 15 mil, my final offer, he sped off and i realized i was in the middle of nowhere! I figured L. Petit wasn´t in the direction we had come from or where the bus turned so i took the other road. On my way i saw a truck and double checked. The driver said i was only about 2 miles away and that another North American girl lived there so not to worry.

I arrived at Sarah´s house and saw her cutting grass in her front yard with a machete. "Mowing the lawn i see?" I breathed a sigh of relief that although I hadn´t actually gotten lost, getting to her hosue was an adventure. WE prepared for her camp but an hour before it was supposed to start it started pouring so we had to cancel it. I enjoyed a fun night eating her great cooking, and relaxing in her little hut.

The next morning we both biked 20 miles on muddy dirt road back to Concepcion. It took us 4 hours but we stopped a lot along the way to take pictures, talk to people along the way, drink water, and rest. It was really hot but luckily there was still cloud cover and we made it safely. It was great to see the countryside and feel physically challenged. So much of the challenges we feel as volunteers are mental so it was great to get some good excerise into my day and feel physically tired instead of just mentally tired. Paraguayans got such a kick out seeing us pass through their communities. I am sure we were a sight to see with out bags strapped onto our bikes, our sunglass and baseball caps, and nalgene bottles. I´ve realized how much of a sporting culture Americans are and how much we were enjoying riding our bikes was a surprise to the locals. Every time they asked where we were headed they seemed shocked. They were fascinated that we were carrying our water with us in these fancy bottles. "Water on the go, that´s the difference between our cultures" I thought. Paraguayans hydrate themselves by sitting in a circle and passing sips of 2 ounces of water through terere drinking. It´s a social thing. Americans take their water with them so they can get where they are going faster. The Nalgene bottle is a lot more effective than the guampa (the cup they drink terere from ) in hydration. But the terere is a lot more fun and community oriented and that´s why I enjoy both.
If only Paraguayans could learn to hurry up and drink some water so they could get on with their day and Americans could sit down and relax a little more and get over the germ sharing factor of sharing a drink! Maybe we´d all have a little more fun that way.

When we arrived in Concepcion we hydrated a lot, with juice and water, then had a beer by the river to celebrate our conquest. We did some shopping then both got on buses back to our sites. I sat down with my family and drank a lot of terere when i got home and showed them pictures from my biking/bus adventure. Then I passed out and slept in the next morning.

I think my body is still recouperating but I am very energized and excited about my next two weeks. February marks one year in country for me and I am taking my first out of country vacation to Buenos Aires and Uruguay. I am looking forward to laying on the beach and seeing the "Paris of South America". I will get to surf and eat in nice restuarants and get out of Paraguay for awhile. It will be great. Sarah the beekeeper and two other volunteers will be traveling with me. I hope to regain my sanity and be re-motivated for my 2nd year of service when I get back. The school year starts at the end of Februrary and I will be planning my projects for another year of work. As of now though, my brain is already on vacation!

Jajotopata! (see you soon)!

Monday, December 24, 2007

Merry Christmas

I hope you are all enjoying being together for the Holidays. I miss you all and wish i could be with my family too! I will be with my host family on Christmas playing with fireworks, eating a lot, drinking a lot of this sangria-like drink and trying to stay cool. Today my host family is killing a pig and will be roasting it all day. I snuck out of the house early this morning and came to Concepcion to do some shopping so that I wouldn´t have to witness the butchering. They are going to tease me about it but at least I won´t have to be there to see it. They kept joking and telling me I was going to have to hold it down and that I have to eat some tonight. They will probably hang the pig head outside my door or something but I´ll get them back somehow. It´s also my host brother´s bday tomorrow so we will be having a good time and they´ll be eating pig all week. It´s doesn´t really feel like Christmas here but I am glad I am getting the opportunity to see how Paraguayans spend their holidays. One reason it doesn´t feel like Christmas is because it´s summer here. Here is a little peak at the the weather forecase for Dec 25th 2007.

Day

Partly Cloudy High
96°F

Precip
20%

Wind: SSE 5 mph
Max. Humidity: 60%
UV Index: 10+ Extreme


Sunrise: 6:02 AM Local Time
Avg. High: 91°F
Record High: N/A

Night

Partly Cloudy Overnight Low
75°F

Precip
20%

Wind: E 5 mph
Max. Humidity: 80%


Sunset: 7:37 PM Local Time
Avg. Low: 72°F
Record Low: N/A