Monday, October 6, 2008

Random Pics

My site mate Rachel and some youth from my neighborhood who help lead activities and make my winter camp possible!



Kids from my neighborhood gathering for prize give-away time at winter camp in July



Trying to organize kids for my winter camp on the soccer field in front of my house



Group photo with 10th, 11th and 12th graders after an all day Leadership workshop in Sarah´s site.



Doing a trust run with high school kids in Luke´s site at an all day workshop on goals, decision making and sex education.


Doing a lesson on Decision Making with 7th graders in my site

Running for Gender Equality

I´d like to thank everyone for all encouragement you´ve given me for completing my marathon training. The marathon will be this Sunday, Oct 12th and I am soooo excited. I feel ready and pretty confident I will finish before the course closes at 6 hours. It´s been a wonderful accomplishment just getting to this point, and my sister Jenn assures me it will feel so good to cross the finish line i won´t even care what my time is. I expressed earlier that doing this marathon is something that i have done for myself, a way to spend my free time in Paraguay, to enjoy the beautiful country roads, a way to bond with other volunteers and set a good example for Paraguayans, especially the youth I work with. I never really considered the thought of fundraising for anything, but since my siblings have raised thousands of dollars for the leukemia foundation when they ran their marathons the thought has occured to me that I could have possibly done something to help out with an organization. That´s when i came up with the perfect solution.

I am not out to start a big fundraising effort with only one week until the marathon but there is a way I can tie marathon training directly into my Peace Corps experience and finalize this accomplishment with your help. If you´ve ever read one of my blogs and thought "I wish i could do something to help out Paraguayans" or "gee, i wish i had the opportunity to contribute to what Jill is doing right now but I just don´t think Peace Corps is for me" then, perhaps this will be just what you´re thinking of! In addition to the work that i do directly in my site, I am part of a committee that meets every other month in the capital, called The Gender and Development (GAD)Committee. At meetings we discuss and brainstorm ways to promote gender education and gender equality in Paraguay. We come up with ideas for projects realating to this topic and take these ideas back to our sites to implement the projects with community members. Every year the committe organizes and puts on a leadership camp for youth from all over the country. One the best things GAD does is give annual scholarships to youth. I´ve included a description of this project below:


"Each year, the Gender and Development Committee (GAD) of Peace Corps Paraguay, along with two local organizations, work together to provide at least 50 underprivileged youth with both technical training and educational scholarships. The technical training includes workshops on leadership, self-esteem, personal finance management, gender empowerment, and networking. The scholarship program includes four different educational levels available for financial aid:

High school level ($100)
Vocational level ($150)
Trade school level ($250)
University level ($500)

The PATF program aims to help young, female Paraguayans pursue their education in diverse fields of study and increase their ability to achieve financially independent and fulfilling lives. Since 2004, the program has awarded 143 scholarships to female Paraguayan youth throughout the country. This year, in order to promote gender equity, the program has expanded to include 10% of the scholarships for male beneficiaries.

You can help Peace Corps raise funds to enable bright, young Paraguayan youth to further their education. Even the smallest contribution can make the biggest difference in raising the tuition that Paraguayan youth need for his/her education. By clicking on the following link you will find further details on the program and information on how to donate to the project:

https://www.peacecorps.gov/index.cfm?shell=resources.donors.contribute.projDetail&projdesc=526-187

Thank you for your generosity"

These scholarships would not be possible without the contributions of family and friends of Peace Corps volunteers back home. Any donation will make a big difference and will help me stay even more motivated on race day. Now, I am not only running for myself, i am running for gender equality and to make a contribution to this wonderful scholarship program. Use the link above to make your donation and let me know if there is any other information you need or would like. Thank you for your help and your support! I´ll post my marathon pics and finish time next week!

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Training for a Marathon









Did I ever announce that I have been training for a marathon for the better part of 6 months? If I failed to make that announcement, you should know that I have made a goal to run 26.2 miles in the Buenos Aires marathon on Oct 12, 2008. Since part of my job is to teach young Paraguayans what it means to set a goal and accomplish it I couldn’t let myself quit, the numerous times I wanted to. I have pushed myself through months of pre-training, struggled through a 16 week training program, experimented with lots of running clothing and equipment, gone through 3 pairs of running shoes, drank more water and sports drinks than a normal person would drink in 5 years, and have forced my body to do something that I never thought it could do, run for hours at a time. As if this wasn’t difficult enough, I did it in a country where sports drinks and running equipment isn’t readily available, where the only people that run are soccer players warming up on a field, where women rarely do any sort of exercise besides the grueling house chores, and where a 6 foot tall red-head already sticks out enough without putting on a pair of shorts and running around with a fanny pack, mp3 player, water bottles in hand, hat and sunglasses and sometimes a dog on a leash. Yes, I got a lot of puzzled looks, a lot of unwanted attention and a lot of questions but mostly just gawking. After a few months though, I got used to it, and so did Paraguayans and I’ve come to realized this is the perfect time and the perfect place to train for a marathon. I have lots of fee time on my hands, endless amounts of dirt roads leading out of my town into beautiful open country scenery, friends willing to do it with me, a dog that loves to run with me and keep away possible attackers, and usually enough frustration on a daily basis to cause me to want to let off some steam through exercise. All of these factors seemed like the perfect reason to sign up for a marathon while in the Peace Corps.

When I signed up for The Peace Corps, I had no idea what to expect. The thought of committing to a job I understood very little, living in a developing country for 2 years, where everything would be different and out of my control, not to mention leaving my very comfortable life behind made me very nervous. Despite my fears I took the plunge. Through 3 months of training I began to understand what I had gotten myself into a little better, which just heightened my fears. I thought about backing out, taking that government paid plane ticket home and pleading my old boss for my job back but I didn’t. I swore in as a Peace Corps volunteer at the U.S embassy after 3 months of training because I figured the hardest part was over. I figured making the decision and getting down here and surviving the first few months. I was wrong. There would be many things to come that were difficult, challenging and that tested every bit of my character in ways nothing else has. But I got through those and as the weeks turned to months and the months have turned into almost 2 years I’ve become accustomed and comfortable…..and happy. In many ways the marathon training has been the perfect metaphor to my Peace Corps service.

When a couple of my friends that I traveled to Buenos Aires and Uruguay with last year suggested we come back to Buenos Aires the following year to participate in a ½ marathon, I jumped on board right away. I was probably drinking wine at the time and would have agreed to anything. Months later when my friends reminded me what I had agreed to I began to make excuses. “I don’t have time….I don’t like running unless it’s to catch the ice cream man…..I don’t have running clothes, I have weak lungs…I had asthma when I was a child…..people will stare at me…………..” Yet, when I laid awake at night thinking of what I had done or accomplished during my day I realized much of the time I felt like it was very little. A visit to some neighbors or community contacts, working in my garden, doing an hour radio show without sounding too ridiculous, singing some songs with some kids, doing a lesson in a high school classroom on a good day or on an amazing day, doing an all day workshop with teachers or students. All these little things are very rewarding and if at the end of my day I’ve done anything productive such as doing the equivalent of 2 loads of laundry with nothing but a bucket and a scrub brush I consider it a day well spent. However, though all the little things add to a happy journey, it’s sometimes discouraging when I have nothing grand to think about before I fall asleep at night, something that makes me feel proud every day. The small accomplishments I made with Paraguayans were as fregçquent but often times less frequent than the frustrations. Also, the challenges of living in a different culture, of speaking in a foreign language all day (2 very different foreign languages at that) of doing laundry by hand, of walking 1 or 2 miles in the heat to buy milk, or most major items are very exhausting both physically and mentally. The exhaustion I’m describing though is the kind of exhaustion that just drains you instead of strengthening you. I was looking for something to wear me out but refuel me as well. Something that would push me to my limits and let me rejoice in my small victories. I began to realize that training for a marathon was exactly what I was looking for. So, I told my three friends I would join them in their insanity and recruited a few others. It’s amazing how willing Peace Corps volunteers are to join you in a life changing commitment, I guess it’s because we are all already in one. Or maybe we all need something to get us through our 2 years and spending 6 months working on a personal goal helps us out.

Just like my first few months of peace corps training made me fear my commitment even more than I had when I was clueless, so did my first few weeks of marathon training. I started running a few days a week and followed the advice of my marathon training for dummies book. I just went outside, ran as far as I could without stopping and then walked until I felt I could run again and continued this for about 2 miles. I could only run about 5 min before having to stop, out of breath and tired. I was very worried I would be incapable of doing this at first. As I read through the dummies book, I became intimidated at how serious it sounded, how much time it would consume out of my daily life and how much sacrifice and discipline it would take. I then found a new book “ The NON Runner’s Guide to Marathon Training For Woman” I instantly became relieved. A whole book dedicated to people like me, NON runners who want to experience a marathon without dying. The author was a 25 year old woman raising money for a stroke association in honor of her grandfather but actually hated exercise. She pretty much bitches her way through her entire training being encouraged by her friend “chipper Jen” and consistently makes fun of how serious people take themselves and their marathon training. She refers to the equipment using her own made up descriptions such as “you will need a water bottle butt thingy but any water carrying device will do, I’m sure you could strap one of those beer holding hard hats on and drink water from tubes as you run” the author, Dawn soon became my hero and after reading her book, I knew if she could do a marathon, so could I.

As I entered into my 16 week training plan, from Dawn’s book I no longer felt overwhelmed. I entered into a stage I was comfortable with, just as I’ve become comfortable in Paraguay, I became comfortable with running. If I looked at the entire 16 week calendar, it became overwhelming. I reminded myself that I tried not to think of my 2 year stint in Peace Corps as 2 years but rather tried to focus on what I wanted to get accomplished that month. This is what I began to do with running. I just took it day by day, following the schedule and trying to avoid the increasing numbers on the calendar on Saturdays. You see, Saturdays are long run days. During the week, you have 3-4 short runs and a couple rest days, along with a cross training day. Then on Saturday they take your total weekly short run miles and then double it to get your long run mileage. At first the long runs started out like 4 or 5 miles. Then they went up to 6, 8, 9, 12 and on up to 16 and 18. Most training programs only make you run 18-20 miles for you longest run. My schedule however, went up to 22 because it wasn’t as intense as other programs throughout most of the training. No matter what training program you’re using, you never actually run a full marathon until race day. Coaches say that if you can run 20 miles you can run a marathon because the excitement of the race day will carry you through the last six miles. Dawn Dais says in her book “What the? Excitement of the day? Carrying me through 6 friggin miles?” She then makes up a funny conversation between two people at an Olymic even pointing out that no one just trains for 2/3 of an athletic event.

“Johny here is going for the Olymic Gold Medal in the triple jump. Tell me about your training program Johny.”

“Well, Jim, basically we just trained for the first two jumps, and I’m hoping that the excitement of the Olympics pretty much carries me through the last jump”

“oh, that would explain why all of those high jumpers over there are only jumping moderately high….”

She has a point, but now that I’ve run 22 miles I can see why coaches say that. After 20 miles, you are in tremendous pain and delirious enough to not even comprehend what 6 more miles is. You just stay in your zombie like zone and keep picking up your feet, although it’s difficult because your quad muscles are the first to go, causing people to drag their feet across the finish line. Running a marathon isn’t exactly the kindest thing you can do to your body, so I understand why they only make you do it once and push you as far as possible but not over the limit in training.

Now that I’ve run a distance 4.2 miles under a marathon, I estimate it will take me about 5-5 ½ hours to finish the marathon. That is a very slow pace, like 11.5 to 12 min miles. Not to mention, I am used to taking breaks under mango trees and at people’s houses where I fill up my water bottles. I also feel no shame in taking several walk breaks. There are actually marathoners that have completed a marathon in under 3 hours, walking for a minute at every water station. I tend to walk for more than a minute when I take my breaks but as far as I’ve read, this is a very smart strategy for beginners who don’t want to collapse at mile 10. Slow and steady wins the race. I’m not out to win anything but I am out to finish a marathon without dying. One more reason to have faith in myself is Oprah. Oprah finished a marathon in 4 ½ hours. She was 40 years old when she did it and Dawn points out “she had years of weight fluctuations, weird diets and bad hair to contend with when she ran. I don’t harbor any ill feelings towards Oprah. Everyone loves Oprah, Oprah loves Oprah. But if Oprah can do this, I can too” I now have two heroes. Dawn and Oprah. I am 26 years old, have been in relatively good shape my whole life and am a stubborn red head. There is no reason why I can’t do this. I can. I am able. I will. My brother and one of my best friends are both leukemia survivors and have run marathons to raise thousands of dollars for the leukemia society. My sister has done a half marathon to raise money for the same organization. Apparently there is a new family tradition and I am proud to be joining it. Who knows, maybe all of us will do one together one day. For now I’m just hoping to make it through my first marathon without loosing a knee.

I only have 3 more weeks of training. This week will consist of several short runs during the week and a short run on the weekend. By short run, I mean 6 miles. When did running 6 miles ever seem short to me? The 2nd to last week will be even fewer miles, down to 3 a day. The final week of training looks like it will be my favorite. It includes one short run and 5 consecutive rest days, lots of hydration, carbohydrate loading and picking out my marathon day outfit. I am looking forward to this week. The tapering off period is much needed and much appreciated at this point. In my peace corps service I feel I am starting to approach into my “tapering off period”. I only have 7 more months in Paraguay and 20 behind me. I can see the end of the road coming and can start to feel very accomplished and proud. Marathon day will be like my¨COS or ¨close of service¨ as a volunteer. Wrapping things up, saying my goodbyes, looking back and taking a moment to feel the magnitude of what I have done. The muscle aches, the blisters, the worn out pair of shoes are all evidence of what I have been through. Just as my worn out, sun-faded, red dirt stained clothing that has suffered two years of hand scrubbing is evidence of where I have lived. These are just physical proof though, and these things do not convey the ways in which marathon training and peace corps service have changed me and who I am forever.

The marathon is my focus right now but I am also busy finishing projects with schools because we’re approaching the end of the school year. I’ll update more about what I’m doing besides running another day. In the meantime send me inspirational messages or quotes so I can think of them when I’m at mile 23. The two friends that originally convinced me to do the marthon have dropped out of their training. There are still 6 of us who are going to do it though. All of them are faster than me, so i need some inspiration to help me keep up. Here are some sample inspirational messages from Paraguayans:

“you’re crazy”

“you’re the girl that runs a lot aren’t you?”

“I saw you walking, you are cheating, you don’t really run the whole time”

“take that dog off the rope, that’s not nice. Why do you make it run with you?”

“hissing noises and whistles from men” because I am wearing shorts

“more hissing noises”

“where are you going? Are you ok? What are you running from or where are you running to? Do you need a ride on my scooter?”

“it’s too hot to run today”

“it’s too cold to run today”

“it’s too windy to run today”

“you’re stupid for doing this”

*though there is a general lack of understanding from Paraguayans about why someone would do this to themselves they are getting a kick out of it and may have even become a little inspired to accomplish their own goals. At the very least I know I have educated a few people about exercise and the way you can train your body to sustain higher levels of exercise than you can imagine. When i do lessons on setting and accomplishing goals with high school students, i always use my marathon as an example of how to accomplish a goal, step by step. I cannot imagine anyone in my community training for a marathon, but I have seen a few more people out walking and running on the main road and maybe, just maybe that had something to do with me. And maybe they understand a little better the American ¨go get ém¨attitude of achieving a goal.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

A Freak Hail Storm

If you read my entry below, you´ll know that Wednesday night I felt sick through most of the night due to some unknown cause. Just when I was looking forward to a restful sleep Thursday night, things got really interesting.

At about 6pm, just before sundown, extremely dark clouds set in over Horqueta. I´ve become used to the sudden tropical rains that come on quickly and strong, then leave just as quick as they came but this one looked different. I took all my laundry off the line and brought my dog inside my house. 10 min later it began to rain. I laid on my bed and settled into an episode of Lost on my computer and thought "a raining evening is just what i want actually" A few minutes later I heard what sounded like rocks being thrown on my roof. I thought "those little %&%$$ better not be throwing rocks on my roof again" referring to my bratty neighbor kids who like to get attention anyway they can. At first it sounded like pebbles but soon it sounded like huge rocks and i realized they weren´t rocks, it was hail. It was hail the size of tennis balls, some the size of softballs and they were coming down hard! Lucy, my dog was freaking out and dove for cover under my bed. I heard my neighbors screaming because they actually don´t even have a roof, they have a plastic tarp covering their little wooden house that resembles more of a tool shed than a house. I can´t imagine what the storm felt like from their point of view. I thought I was in a safe place until chunks of my roof came falling down and the huge ice balls were covering my floor. As the water flooded my floors, i quickly put my computer away and moved my bed where it wouldn´t get soaked. I watched in horror as more and more ice balls came crashing through my roof. I didn´t know where to stand so i wouldn´t get hit, so i stood in my doorway and covered my head. I got a text message from Mirtha my host mom telling me to come over to their house, they were worried about me and their roof is a lot stronger than mine. Mine is made of a cheap almost cardboard/plastic-like material and my host family´s is metal. I put a rain jacked on and ran over to their house and waited it out. It only lasted 5 min in total but it was scary! Afterwards however, everyone ran outside to pick up the ice balls. Paraguayans had never seen anything like this before, and some even called them ice from heaven and were convinced you should eat it. I said no thanks, and went back to my house to see what heaven´s ice had done to my house.

I have 5 holes in total about the size of large potatoes. Five holes isn´t a lot but my house is so tiny, it kind of looks like a strainer now. I can now see the stars at night and have a sun roof during the day. I but buckets under them when it rains and i´m waiting out an immediate fix because the city is going to supply the materials for the repairs since so many people´s roofs were damaged. I´m impressed the city is responding this way but won´t be surprised if they don´t follow through. I will need 5 new sheets of the plastic cardboard stuff and that´s more than a little over my budget this month. I´ve already replaced a couple sheets once when i climbed up there to look at the stars, not realizing no one does that in Paraguay because the roofs can´t handle it!

Nothing was damaged except for the AC adapter to my computer, which I hope to replace this week when I go to Ciudad del Este-electronics capital of South America, on the border of Brazil. You can supposedly buy anything there for really cheap but you have to be careful it´s legit. After I get my adapter I´m going to hop over the border to check out the waterfalls called Iguazu. I hope to post pictures of that soon after, i hear they are beautiful. In the meantime, if it rains I will have a waterfall in my house!

To make the situation more interesting, the storm caused the electricity and water to go out in the entire norhern region of Paraguay. Now, electricity and water go out frequently and I´m used to that but this time they stayed out for over 30 hours. From Thursday evening to Saturday mid day, I learned how to be very good at conserving water, how to stand in line at my neighbors house, while the entire street heaved buckets of water out of their well and hauled them to their homes. I learned to collect water in buckets from the rain (since the well water looked a little dirty to me) I was still able to heat water on my gas stove to bucket bathe in and to cook with. I ate my food out of the pot so as not to create more dishes that needed to be washed with my limited water supply. I flushed my toilet by pouring used dishwater down it and made handwashing stations out of 2 liter bottles turned upside down and hung up by string.

At 6pm, the neighborhood went completely dark and silent and peole went to bed by 8pm since there was no light, no TV or music. I read and journaled by candlelight and played my guitar and watched the sky through the holes in my roof and wondered when the water and electricity would come back. I would play games with myself and count down from 10 and then say .....and NOW!......and NOW! But that grew old fast. My cell phone battery died so I couldn´t even text message other volunteers to say things like "do YOU have water yet?" or (sarcastically) "good thing i have home owners insurance" haha. I ate everything in my fridge that would go bad, which wasn´t much. I had good, quality thinking time and i grew stinkier and stinkier without a real shower.

Saturday I went for a 12 mile run, as part of my marathon training and gracias a Dios the water was back on when i got back. If it wasn´t, i´m sure my neighbors would have moved if they smelled me. The electricty was back too and everyone was smiling and in high spirits in the streets. I don´t think people even cared about the holes in their roofs anymore, there was running water and power. I hope there´s not another storm like that in the next 8 1/2 months but it was a learning experience and will always make a great story. It will also always make me appreciate strong roofs, gas stoves, home owner´s insurance, long burning candles and will keep me from ever complaining if i suffer through a 10 min power outage back home. :)

A Nausea Problem

warning: This entry involves words like Parasites and Poo, so if you´re not into these kind of stories don´t read further.

Wednesday night I went to sleep feeling fine but I woke up in the middle of the night feeling extremely nauseous. This is the 3rd time I´ve felt sick like this in 2 months. The first time this happened I was on a night bus coming back to site from Asuncion. I was with my Paraguayan contact and luckily another volunteer. We had just attended a 3 day workshop on youth employment skills. I took a benedryl and soon passed out for the 6 hour ride that left at 11pm. My two companions were also quickly dozing off. As the bus traveled further from Asuncion, more and more passengers began to load on. The seats were already filled so these passengers were forced to stand in the aisles. (The bus company still charges these people full price and they need to stand for the entire 5-6 hour ride)An hour or so into the trip, I woke up feeling sick, I began to search for a plastic bag in case i couldn´t make it to the bathroom at the back of the bus in time. Then I jumped out of my seat and pushed my way through the 20 or so people standing in the aisle, making my way to the back of the bus. I stepped over people attempting to sleep on the floor, over a sick child being comforted by his mother, and finally reached the bathroom only to find a man sitting in front of the door blocking my entrance. I covered my mouth and motioned him to move out of the way if he knew what was best for him, he quickly got up, and I threw the door open knowing I had only seconds before I couldn´t hold in my sickness any longer. As I opened the door, I was MORTIFIED to find a man in full military uniform sleeping on the toilet! I grabbed him by the shoulder and shook him awake as I simultaneously began to let forth the most horrific projectile vomitting scene anyone has ever seen. (Think the scene in The Excorsist) The man barely escaped receiving a direct hit but he still suffered some splashidge and I turned the bathroom into a mess. I continued to puke for 20 min and then I began to cry because I was stuck in the bathroom, a complete mess and there was no water, nor toilet paper, which is always the case on buses or in any public bathroom in Paraguay. Eventually my friend figured out I was sick but not because any Paraguayan let her know. Paraguayans I´m sure just sat in silence as they listened to me and thought "she´s surely dying....it must be God´s plan, we shall just stand here and watch and not tell her friend" When she knocked on the door and asked if i was ok I responded "NO, i´m not ok. I´m puking my guts, out, i have no water, or paper, there is a mess in here, and i´m pretty sure i puked on a military man" She then brought me a bottle of water and a roll of paper as fast as she could and I cleaned myself and the bathroom up as best I could. I sprayed water all over the bathroom then used wads of toilet paper to wipe it up. I couldn´t leave this pile of stuff in the bathroom for 50 other people to smell as they used the bathroom so I threw it out the window,(it´s amazing what you can get used to) I didn´t like littering but in a country where it´s the norm because trash cans simply don´t exist 95% of the time, i didn´t feel too guilty. Luckily I felt better immediately and went back to sleep.

Wednesday night I woke up in the middle of the night feeling the same way and had the same experience, minus the military man and the littering. I´m going to get tested for parasites next time i´m in Asuncion, since the likelihood of it being food poisening on several occasions in unlikely. If it is a parasite, that will count as the 3rd kind i´ve had during my service. I´ve had 14 pique (which are the little bugs that lay eggs in your foot) Number 14 crawled under my toe nail, and left me without a toe nail when I finally got it out :( I wasn´t too upset my this, since i was expecting to loose a toenail at some point during my marathon training but i thought it would be due to running instead of parasites. The other kind I´ve had is much worse-pin worm. If you´re not sure what that is, i´m not sure you want to know. It causes extreme itching during the night in your butt region because the worms are as the peace corps doctor said "active during the night" crawling out of your butt. This is really common in kids in Paraguay and you know they have it because they itch their butt. Well, then the eggs get under their fingernails, no one washes their hands, then they touch food, or your hand....and you guess what happens. I get it!! Teachers in the states may have to worry about catching colds from kids but at least they don´t have to worry about pinworm. I know, I know... Ewww. I scrub my hands and fingernails everyday now.

I don´t know what is living inside me right now, or if i´m even really motivated to bring 3 days worth of samples on a 6 hour bus ride to the capital for an exam. (That just sound like a reason I might puke on the bus again) but if i find out, i´ll let you know.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Sit Pig Sit

The following is a submission I wrote for the Volunteer run, volunteer created magazine called The Kuat. It´s a compilation of stories, essays, jokes, cartoons, and technical information that is published every 4 months. There is always a topic for the edition and this edition was "change and how peace corps has changed you". I decided to take a light hearted approach and write about my family´s pig and how i taught it to sit. The pig has become sort of a legend and whenever I meet volunteers they say "oh yeah, you´re the girl who taught a pig to sit" so i thought people would get a kick out of this article, i hope you do too!

Sit Pig, Sit.

Ever wonder why pigs have gotten such a bad rap? Pigs have held a place of high status in Chinese and Eastern Asian cultures for centuries, so why is there a certain stigma attached to them in other parts of the world? Okay, maybe it’s just me that has pondered these questions. I’ve always wondered as to why the phrases “sweat like a hog”, “stink like a pig” “dirty as a pig” and “you live in a pig sty” have become so popular. Pigs are actually incapable of sweating (that’s why they love to cool off in the mud), they have absolutely no odor, and will try to restrict their bathroom waste to one corner of their pen, so as not to pollute their territory. The only phrase that actually makes sense is “eat like a pig” because pigs do love to eat (if they are on a proper diet and have all their vacunas they gain 1 kilo for every 2 kilos of food they eat) and often chew with open mouths and smack their lips. My fascination with pigs existed before I came to Paraguay but I’ll admit that ever since being the only Urban Youth Volunteer (other than the volunteer I followed up) to live on the property where 30 pigs once roamed in and out of the enclosed urban backyard, the fascination has grown. Some may say it’s turned into a hobby or even a secondary project. Pigs that is. They may be right but it’s nothing to laugh about. I have a story of success that all started with teaching a pig to sit.

It happened on Christmas Eve 2007. I was sitting around in site with my 12 year old host brother. We were watching the movie Babe, just hours after my host mother butchered the family pig for the Christmas feast. I felt a little guilty about this but I didn’t have any other movie options appropriate for a 12 year old, other than Chicken Run and that wasn’t dubbed in Spanish. My host brother asked me if pigs were really as intelligent as Babe and I told him that pigs were indeed muy inteligente and some people even keep them as pets. I told him pigs have been ranked the fifth most intelligent animal, with man ranking first followed by monkeys, dolphins, whales, then pigs. A couple of months after this conversation a new pig came to the family. My host mother jokingly knocked on my door, pig in arms and said “te traje tu nuevo mascota”. The wheels began to turn. He was small, cute and unafraid of people. It became clear that I had my blank slate. A few days later the training began. I stole some treats from my dog and began saying “Pig, sit”. This wasn’t exactly as easy as training my dog, the pig did not respond well to me pushing on his behind and it was a little embarrassing having the squeals draw attention to me with my hand on a pig’s butt. Pigs are a little like children in that if you give them an inch they’ll take a mile. He was a lot more stubborn than I anticipated so I looked up some pig training tips online to see if this was actually possible. I followed the tips and discovered backing him into a corner in my kitchen did the job and kept the training more of a private pastime than a community event. I never gave him a treat without his rump on the ground because I learned pigs will continually test you. The pig learned the trick quickly and even started following me around and sitting in front of me, often times on my foot hoping I’d give him some doggie treats. I was surprised at how much the pig seemed to enjoy this interaction. He began spending lots of time in my kitchen with me, watching me cook and do laundry. Pigs are social animals, have advanced communication skills and are very affectionate. I wasn’t sure how my host family would respond to their Christmas 2008 dinner being treated like a pet so I kept the trick a secret for a few weeks. When I decided to show them, they were extremely amused. In the following days I caught my host mom saying “Esit, esit” to the pig followed by uncontainable laughter. The pig was soon a form of great entertainment.

In the months that followed, I began to share information with my host mother through the entertainment and conversation about the pig, about the importance of giving pigs parasite medicine, which costs 3mil and only needs to be purchased every couple months. She has done this ever since and has even bathed the pig on a regular basis to keep him free of pique and looking good. The pig now sleeps on an old mattress in the patio area and comes when called by my host mom. He shares a water dish with my dog and enjoys belly rubs from the entire family. I know all of this does not change his fate come December, and before PC that may have bothered me and my vegetarian beliefs. But pc has taught me many things, and I’ve learned many of them by teaching a pig to sit. What’s most important is not our inevitable fates but how our lives are spent during the time we have. Come December I will have to say my goodbyes to him, as I will have to say my goodbyes to everyone in this country in April but I am pleased he will live a healthier life and am amazed at the way change has taken place in this very small way. Never underestimate the ability of a pig. Change is just waiting to happen. In Paraguay, there are pigs everywhere. Go. Find one. Teach it to sit and just watch what good things come to your service and well being afterwards. If anything you’ll accumulate a lot of good karma and have a great party trick.



Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Peru Pics


This is where they grew their food at Machu Pichu

Gretchen, Sarah and me drinking beer on my bday

The people that performed the solsitice ceremony

Sarah doing the coca leaf ritual at the solsitice ceremony

Sarah and Gretchen feeding the llamas

Feeding the llamas at the llama farm

Salkantay Mountain-my favorite pic

A door frame-they didn't build them for me!

Roof Tops at Machu Pichu

Llama at Machu Pichu

Look at my bulging calf muscles, hehe

Stream on the jungle part of the hike

Enjoying the view at Machu Pichu

view of Machu Pichu

a really cool tree i saw on the trek

Pepito-the mule Gretchen rode on part of the trek, i was jealous, i wanted to ride him too but everyone joked my feet would touch the ground

Pointing to Salkantay mountain in the distance-that's how far we hiked!!

group shot at Machu Pichu

Standing at the sign at Salkantay pass at 14,000 ft-ish

Sarah walking towards our fist view of Salkantay mountain

3 proud hikers, end of the first day

Cathedral

These women were sitting on the steps in front of the Cathedral

Dancers in a parade in Cuzco

I´ve discovered I¨m a lot taller than everyone in South America

Plaza de las armas-City of Cuzco

I will post more pictures later-the internet connection is sooooo slow right now.

The Peru Trip

First of all I apologize for not writing since April! I sometimes loose track of time down here (it´s true I often forget what day it is, sometimes what month but the worst I ever heard was when I heard a volunteer say “what year is it?”) and all the strange and funny things I experience that used to seem so blog worthy have become my everyday life. The little idiosyncrasies of Paraguayan culture have been accepted as just the way things are here. For example, on my way to the internet café to post this blog I was stopped by a car and a man got out with a video camera and asked if he could please interview me for the local news. I shrugged and said “I am in kind of a hurry, can we do this next week?” and he said that would be fine. I never even thought twice that these things NEVER happened to me back home. However, spending the last couple weeks hanging out with an American who is visiting from the states and is not a volunteer has helped shed some light that our lives really are kinda crazy down here. Watching her laugh hysterically as a pig comes into my kitchen as I’m cooking, or singing songs and dancing around in a classroom of kids made me realize peace corp volunteer’s lives kind of are like a funny reality TV show. I’ve written an extremely long blog about the Peru trip that I hope people can get through but I promise to keep you all more updated on the happenings of Paraguay in the month to come!

This is the Story of my 13 day trip to Peru and the 50 miles I covered in a hike to Machu Pichu.

Day 1-Wed night, Thursday
Another volunteer, Sarah and I took a 6 hour, overnight bus from our sites (both up in the department of Concepcion) to Asuncion. We arrived in the morning; spend a couple hours at the Peace Corps office, checking email and freshening up for our next leg of the trip-departure from Paraguay. We took a cab to the airport with our big backpacks and were as excited as two teenagers going to the DMV to get their license. We checked our bags in and went to our gate. It was 9:45 and our flight left at 10:00am. When I looked at the gate and didn’t see anyone boarding, I thought we surely must have missed our flight but then I saw a flight attendant approach the gate. I asked her about our flight and she said “oh no you didn’t miss it. It’ll be boarding any minute” Which in Paraguay means any day now. I laughed and thought “why am I not surprised that even the airport in Paraguay functions as relaxed and late running as everything else” We ordered a coffee while we waited to board our plane. We had a short, one hour flight to Buenos Aires and connected to another flight to Lima, Peru. It was an 8 hour flight, which made me realize just how far away Paraguay is from everything. We arrived at 11:45pm in Lima and met Sarah’s sister, Gretchen at the airport. She had just flown in from Cincinnati to meet Sarah. It was a fun, yet tired meeting. We still had another flight to catch, to Cuzco and that wasn’t until the next morning so we settled into a spot on the ground floor of the airport and started to doze off. I decided to explore the upstairs level of the airport to find toothpaste and toiletries since my toiletry bag went missing in the flight. When I went upstairs I thought I must have been hallucinating. First I saw a starbucks, then I saw a dunkin donuts, a Mc Donalds, a Papa Johns and several other American treats. I went into a little store and was overwhelmed with the amount of options for soap and toothpaste. I ran downstairs and woke sarah up. I couldn’t even express the excitement of what I had found, so I eventually stumbled out with “dude you have to come upstairs, it’s like Disneyland up there”. We migrated upstairs with our bags and each got 2 doughnuts, and a starbucks coffee. While we sat munching on sugar and caffeine, I said “ I LOVE Peru”.


Day 2-Friday
After a restless yet indulging night in the Lima airport, I got on a 5:30am flight to Cuzco. Sarah and Gretchen had to stay behind in Lima to go the Paraguayan embassy so Gretchen could get a Paraguayan visa so she could come back to Paraguay with us after our time in Peru. I arrived in Cuzco and took a taxi to our hostel. I was immediately in love with the city of Cuzco. It was bustling with life, restaurants, shops and lots and lots of tourists. After spending a year and half in the most non touristy country I’ve ever been to I was so glad to be somewhere where everything you could ever want to have on vacation was right within reach. I checked into our backpacking hostel, which was really nice, good priced but also felt somewhat like a college dorm. Who knew, that people who love to trek for miles and miles in the Andes mountains were also some of the biggest partiers I’ve even seen. Our hostel was even complete with a full bar and theme parties. I saw a sign advertising a Friday the 13th party that night. My room wasn’t ready yet since check out time wasn’t until 1pm. I put my bags in a storage room and took a nap in a hammock outside in the patio area. I slept for 2 hours and woke up with a sunburn on my arm but feeling well rested. I checked into my room and shortly after Sarah and Gretchen arrived, feeling exhausted but happy because they had obtained the visa. We explored Cuzco a little bit that night and found a great Mexican restaurant that also served Peruvian food. I quickly discovered that Peru makes amazing cream soups. I ate a cream of asparagus soup and the best veggie enchilada of my life. We went to bed early even though we could hear the buzz of the Friday the 13th party down the hallway of our hostel.

Day 3-saturday
We took a city tour of Cuzco, touring the cathedrals that the Spaniards built after tearing down the Incan temples, and some Incan ruins around the town. The streets of Cuzco are mostly cobblestone and the plazas are beautiful so in many ways it reminded me of being in southern Spain again. I enjoyed seeing the sites of the town but our tour guide was a jerk with a capital J. He wouldn’t allow us hardly any time to take pictures and kept telling our group that if we didn’t make it to the last site of the day it was our fault because we weren’t moving fast enough. We also missed half of what he was saying because he spoke so fast and he was speaking in Spanish. The English speaking tour was sold out so Sarah and I had to translate for Gretchen the whole time. Our translating skills became worse and worse as the tour went on. Eventually, I just told Gretchen “this painting, or this building is really old” and “he said something about the Inca’s again” We had another great dinner involving cream soups and a lot of cheese and hiked the 2 blocks up a stairway to our hostel. Luckily the altitude was not affecting me like I feared it might. Sarah and Gretchen on the other hand struggled up the steps, having to stop every 3 or 4 steps to rest and breathe normally. I did notice my heart was beating a lot faster than normal but I did not feel like I was struggling for oxygen. This put me at ease, knowing that in less than 48 hours I would be going on 5 day hike.




Day 4-Sunday
We originally had planned to take an all day tour of the sacred valley of the Incas (which extends miles outside of cuzco) but decided instead to relax, sleep in and make sure we were prepared for our trek the next day. The trekking company came to our hostel to show us a map of our trek, collect our money and inform us they would pick us up from our hostel the next morning for the trek. The best party of this day was when Sarah and I went for a short jog around the plaza and ran into a Peace Corps volunteer that finished her service in April and had been traveling in south America every since. She was a volunteer that even served a hour away from my site, who I used to hang out with a lot! She informed us there were 2 other volunteers that we knew who were in Peru too. They were on the same hike that we were going to start the next day!

Day 5
4am, Sarah’s alarm goes off and we quietly climb out of bed, get dressed and start to head out the door to put the things we will not need on the trek in the 24 hour storage room when sarah realizes her alarm clock is still on Paraguay time so it was really only 3am. I lay down in my bed again fully clothes and slept for another hour. The trekking company picked us up at 5am. While we waited we drank tea and chatted with other backpackers waiting for other companies to pick them up for their treks. We also watched amusingly as drunk partiers came back from the bars. One girl looked at me and said “wow, you guys are in a totally different state of mind, you’re like just getting up and starting your day for a trek and I’m like drunk and just going to bed” (she later asked someone if the hostel bar was still open) We got into the van and met the two other people that would be in our trek group. Criss and Hailey, both doctors from Nashville who were on a one week adventure vacation. Criss, short for Christine and Hailey-commonly a female name joked about how their names always caused a laugh.We drove about 2 ½ hours to a small town at the start of the trek. We ate breakfast and had our first lesson on coca leaves. Apparently coca leaves are great herbs for helping your body adjust to the altitude so we were served coca tea to help us get ready for our trek. We chatted with our new company a little bit and got to know each other. We were pleased to see that we were in great company, not just in the case of emergencies and in need of medical attention but because Criss and Hailey were world travelers, experienced trekers and very interested in hearing about our life in Paraguay. They had both run marathons and when they found out sarah and I were training for one in October gave us a lot of great tips. We had a great first day of hiking, it was mostly uphill but nothing too steep. In addition to having a great group we were pleased to see our guide was great too. He was a very friendly, intelligent 24 year old guy named Pabel, (though we called him Pablo the entire time because we thought that’s what he said). He told us in order to be a guide you have to study in the University for 5 years. They must learn about the culture, history, nature, how to deal with difficult people, basic first aide, and become conversational in English. We were impressed not only with the amount of education he had but with how much he really loved his job, and how passionate he was about the Incan traditions and history. He was a very spiritual person who enjoyed sharing all his knowledge with us. I don’t know what I was expecting on a 5 day trek in the Andes but I was so impressed with the service we received. Our big packs were carried on mules by the porters so all we had to carry was our day packs with our cameras, water and jacket. We hiked approximately 4-5 hours in the morning, ate a prepared lunch, always with soup, coca tea and a delicious main course. Then we continued through the afternoon until almost dark when we arrived at our camp site to find our tents already set up and our afternoon snack being prepared. We weren’t able to bathe but we were able to rest, change clothes, snack and then sit down to a delicious dinner. After dinner we crashed, our bodies feeling exhausted and our minds a bit pensive at the thought of the most challenging day of our trek laying ahead of us, hiking up to approximately 14,000ft.



Day 6
We were woken up at 5:30am by the porters. They brought coca tea to our tents so we could drink the tea in the comfort of our sleeping bags and start to wake up. We packed up our stuff and met a small picnic table for breakfast. We informed we needed to drink a lot of coca tea and chew on the dry coca leaves as much as possible because today we would be climbing to approximately 14,000ft to the Salkantay pass on Salkantay mountain. Gretchen had been having problems the previous day with her asthma and decided it would be best to ride a mule named Pepito up to the pass. The rest of us, huffed and puffed and took baby steps all the way up the pass. We felt accomplished and tired and completely in awe at how beautiful the mountain was. It snow covered and the air was thin. Pabel led us in a small Incan ceremony that involved blowing coca leaves into the air to the east, west, sun and earth and then made a wish and put the leaves under a rock. We took a group picture and started the descend. We ate lunch and spent 5 hours hiking in the afternoon to our next camp site. We were exhausted but informed the next day would be completely downhill and we would walk through a completely different eco-system, descending into jungle.




DAY 7- Wed MY BIRTHDAY

The night before someone had informed the guide it was my bday the following day. We were woken up at 5:30 with coca tea like normal but when we sat down to breakfast Pablo told me the cook had a special treat for me. The cook, nicknamed David Copperfield brought me out a birthday cake that said in English Happy Birthday Jill! It had frosting and sprinkles and everything and was made without an oven in the middle of the mountains. I was so impressed and we all enjoyed a piece of cake with our breakfast. Hiking downhill was less challenging than climbing up the pass but it was still hard on the knees and the toes. My feet were covered in blisters, one that was “one of the biggest Pablo had ever seen”. Luckily at the end of the day, we camped at a site where we were able to take a bus to some hot springs, where we were finally able to soak our tired bodies and feel somewhat clean again. When we returned to our campsite we were treated to a feast for dinner. We drank a few beers and bought a few for Pabel too in celebration of my birthday and then went to bed.


Day 8-Thursday
We woke up and packed our stuff up. We were given the option of hiking in the morning for 4 hours along a fairly unsenic route, then take a train to the town of Aguas Calientes (near Machu Pichu) or take a bus in the morning and then walk along the train tracks to Aguas Calientes. We decided it sounded like more fun to walk along the tracks so we waited for a mini van to come pick us up from our campsite. While we waited we took pictures of a baby monkey that has a reputation of roaming around the campsite looking for food. It was cute but I was not stupid enough to touch it. When we got to the train station, we ate lunch and said goodbye to our porters and our cook. We tipped them generously for their hard work and enjoyed one last meal from David Copperfield. After lunch we walked for about 3 ½ hours along the railroad tracks to the town of Aguas Calientes. Aguas Calientes (which means hot waters-because there are hot springs here too) is about 5 miles from Machu Pichu. Our trek included a night’s stay in a hotel here and a dinner in a restaurant. Agues Calientes is a tourist trap town packed with restaurants, bars, shops, street musicians and venders everywhere. We loved it. It seems the economic stratedgy of this town was to offer 3 for 1 and 4 for 1 drink specials in every restaurant so as to keep the tourists nice and intoxicated. Everyone knows intoxicated tourists spend more money. Most of my souvenir purchasing happened here, not just because of that but because Peru has such amazing Artisan crafts. Everything is so colorful and wonderful. There are sweaters, socks, mittens, and hats made of Alpaca which is so warm. There are beautiful tablecloths, rugs, purses, plates and beautiful traditional flute musicians performing and selling their CDs everywhere. We told Gretchen to go ahead and get all her souvenirs here since Paraguay offers very little in the way of shopping. We ran into the two other peace corps volunteers in this town, they were a day ahead of us on the trek and had just finished their tour of Machu Pichu. We were going to Machu Pichu the next morning.


Day 9-Friday
We woke up VERY early and met our group at 5am. We were led by Pabel to a line than ran down the street for blocks. This was the line for the buses that run to Machu Pichu. Buses run every 15-20 min and every one is packed with tourists from all over the world. We boarded a bus and rode a very windy 30 min ride up to the entrance of Machu Pichu. Because Machu Pichu is considered Incan territory we got Machu Pichu stamps in our passports. Pabel gave us a concise explanation of what Machu Pichu was and a brief history: It was a city where the higher class incans lived. It’s called a “Lost City” but it was more like a sanctuary where priests, high functionaries, craftsmen, servants and virgins chosen to dedicate their life to the sun god lived. The Incans ruled in the 1300 and 1400s but Machu Pichu wasn’t even discovered until 1911, when Hiram Bingham basically stumbled upon it. The city took approximately 50-70 years to build but it was only used for less than a 100 years because the Spaniards conquered the empire in the 1500s. The Spaniards found and torn down many Incan temples but they never found Machu Pichu. They built it on a steep mountain that was practically invisible from the trails below. Although it was on a slope but the Incans still managed to farm the land on narrow terraces. The houses had straw roofs (the same kind which Sarah laughed she actually has on her house in Paraguay) which are long gone but you can see the outline of the roof still in stone. The stones that the Incans used were carried often from miles away, we’re talking HUGE stones that were pulled and pushed using a system of ramps and poles. It was hard to imagine how they must have moved the materials in the type of landscape we were in. It’s no wonder the Incan culture looked down so much on laziness, if you were lazy there is no way you could have survived in those mountains. Everyone had to carry their own weight. What amazes people most about this place is the way the rocks were cut and assembled. Eveywhere you look, in every room there are hidden secrets in the construction. There are shapes of llamas in the walls, still functioning aqueducts, special windows that allow the sun’s rays to cast through at certain hours of the day or only on the solstice for celebrations and religious activities, alters where llama sacrifices were done and tombs. You could spend days looking for all the details in every room but I enjoyed just walking around and imagining what it must have been like for Hiram Bingham to come across this place. It was covered in vines and debris when he found it and there were two families living in a part of it who said they did not disturb any part of it other than their house because they didn’t want to anger the spirits. He brought back an expedition to help clear away the vines and clean it up. They thought it was inaccessible until they discovered the Inca trail that cuts through to the valley in the 1940s. The city was abandoned and all the mummies and gold were taken into the jungle when the Incans fled from the Spaniards. It’s a miracle it was never found and survived in such great condition. We enjoyed the day walking around and said goodbye to Pabel our guide. When he was leaving he told us that the next day was the winter solstice and he invited us to come with him to a solstice celebration in the morning. We accepted the invitation.



Day 10 –Saturday
We woke up at 4:30 and met Pabel at 5:20 in the plaza. Gretchen decided to pass on the solsitice celebration to sleep in but Sarah and I climbed sleepy eyed and cold into a taxi with pabel and Criss and Hailey for a 40 min ride to Sacasayhuaman, a military complex overlooking Cuzco built by the Incas. Every year on June 24th there is a huge solstice celebration here but Pabel informed us the real Incan tradition was to celebrate it today, the 21st. The Spaniards apparently changed the date later. Pabel was part of small organization that carried on the original celebration of the Incas. We were the only 4 tourists there (other than a photographer who looked like he might be working for National Geographic or something like that) and had to bribe someone to be allowed to participate. We stood around in the cold, dark morning wondering when it would start. When the sun started to rise a group of men and woman dressed in costumes and carrying props gathered in a group and raised their hands to salute the sun. We followed the example. Then the chief (or leader of the group) said a prayer in the traditional language of Quecuha (so we didn’t understand a thing). He then led the group through a small opening in a cave. Pabel told us they were going to crawl though the cave and come out the other side of the rock to be reborn into a new year. We asked if we could do it too and he said yes so we got in line. I was behind Pabel and the first of the gringos to enter. I soon had to duck down low and within seconds everything went pitch dark. I could no longer see Pabel or anything else. I heard his voice say “stay to the left”. I put my hand on the wall and suddenly felt claustrophobic. I was crouched down so low I almost had to put my hands on the ground and I had no idea how much smaller the space was going to get or how much further I had to go. A few seconds later I saw light begin to enter the tunnel and breathed a sigh of relief as I was reborn out the other side. It was my favorite part of the ceremony, though a little scary. We then gathered in a big circle and listened to various prayers. Someone passed out 4 coca leaves to each person in the circle and we watched (a little bit in horror) as we realized each person in the circle had to go up to the chief, bow in front of him , then blow the leaves in the 4 directions and put them in a fire and make a wish. We were allowed to go in pairs. Criss went with Pabel and I watched closely because I was next. Hailey (a 6’4 red head) and I walked up to the chief bowed, then blew our leaves to the east, west, north and south. We then put our leaves in the fire and went back to the circle. I took pictures of Sarah when it was her turn but she said she was so nervous she forgot to take pictures of me. Criss said hailey and I looked great because we were so in unison. Criss whispered to me “I air-balled” meaning her leaves fell onto the ground instead of the fire. We giggled as we watched the rest of the ceremony. No wonder tourists aren’t allowed. We did great at the next part though, which was when a woman blew on a giant shell horn and we danced and hopped as we ran in a circle. I heard one onlooker laugh and say “look at those gringos!” but we didn’t care, we were having a blast. When the ceremony was over pabel offered to give us a tour of the sacred valley (for a fee of course) but we liked the idea of going with him instead of a big group. Criss and Hailey had to catch a flight back to Nashville but Sarah and I agreed to meet pabel at 10:30 for the tour. We went back to the hostel to get Gretchen and eat breakfast, then headed out for our tour. We toured more Incan ruins and a llama farm where we got to feed and pet all different kinds of alpacas and llamas. We finished our day at 8:30pm and immediately crashed.

Day 11-Sunday
This was our last day to enjoy Cuzco so we did just that. Walked around town, shopped, ate lunch, watched a parade in town and Sarah and Gretchen ate Alpaca meat (which they say was good and tasted like flavorful steak) Sarah debated trying Guinea pig but passed because you had to order it 24 hours in advance and pick out your own guinea pig.

Day 12 and 13-Monday- Tuesday
Rode a 22 hour bus ride to see the countryside back to Lima. Most of the ride was in the mountains, on switchback roads. Sarah threw up 3 times from car sickness but I took 2 benedryl and passed out. We arrived in Lima after a very long bus ride and when passing through Lima I felt better about not spending any time there. It looked like a big, unattractive city with no personality. The coastline looked pretty depressing but sarah and Gretchen said they saw one nice beach with surfers when they went to get the Paraguayan visa. I was shocked at the amount of KFCs I saw everywhere. I also saw a Chili’s and a TGI Fridays. (these things catch my attention now) We debated getting a taste of American cuisine before heading to the airport but decided to get Papa John’s pizza at the airport instead. Eating American style pizza after 17 months without it was like heaven and the perfect end to our trip. We boarded our plane and headed back to Paraguay. I sat next to a woman that threw up continually throughout the flight, using her barf bag and all of our surrounding neighbors but luckily I still had some benedryl to knock me out so I wouldn’t suffer too much.

When we arrived in Paraguay, Gretchen could immediately tell this was not like Peru and that she was in for a different kind of adventure. Sarah took her to spend 6 days in her site in the middle of nowhere and then brought her to my site in the city to talk on my radio show and help make play-dough with kids at the after school program I work at. I asked her what she thought of Paraguay and she said they went to many people´s houses to eat lunch, drink terere, etc and that everyone said the same thing every time. That they looked alike, they asked who was older-said that sarah looked so much older than Gretchen even though Gretchen is older, asked if she liked Paraguay and if she was happy. Gretchen said by the end of the week, she could understand the guarani because everyone said the same things in a conversation. They asked if she liked terere and chipa and asked if they had those things in the states, even though sarah has lived in that community for a year and a half and has already told them the U.S does not have terere nor chipa. She was also shocked at the amount of attention an American woman gets from Paraguayan men (in a very rude, annoying way) We just laughed and said “yeah, we’ve been having the same boring conversations with people for over a year. Paraguayans just don’t really talk about much other than the weather or small town gossip”. They will probably be talking about Gretchen for months since she´s the most interesting thing to come around in a long time. We all traveled together again to go to the 4th of July party at the American Embassy, where we met all the other volunteers and enjoyed burgers (or veggie burgers) hot dogs, potato salad, beans and beer sold by the marines. I was tempted to join them for a trip to the waterfalls on the border of Argentina but I had to pass because I need to get back to my work and relationships with people in site and stop neglecting my dog. It’s winter vacation right now in the schools and I am hosting another camp for the kids in my neighborhood next week. I brought back alpaca hats for all my host siblings and an alpaca sweater for my host mom. It’s not cold enough for them to wear them right now though because this has been an unusually hot winter. Most days I can wear a t shirt and shorts still. I miss the cold mountains of Peru already and I think I’m suffering a little from post vacation blues but overall things are going very well and I can’t believe I’m on the downhill slope. I only have 9 months left in my service and there’s still so much I want to do while I am here, starting with posting more blogs before I forget this all. Keep reading!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

A field trip with the after school program


25 kids and 5 adults transported in ONE pick up truck-no seatbelt laws!

View out the back of a pick up truck

The problem with unpaved roads-this car got stuck in front of us and we ALL had to get out and help push it.

whoever didn't fit in the pick up went in the jeep

Nature pics


This is a really cool moth I saw on the wall outside my house

When i went to take a shower, i found this guy waiting to join me

This is a common spider on my porch

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Behind Bars

Yesterday was my first day working at the state prison in Concepcion. It´s is located just outside the city of Concepcion and about a 40 min bus ride from Horqueta. Lily, an urban youth volunteer that just finished her service and is now back home getting ready to start Law school worked for a couple months with her site mate at the prison giving lessons to the inmates on self esteem and job skills. She really enjoyed the work and said it was one of her favorite projects she had while being a volunteer in Paraguay. When she left, I asked if the prison was interested in having someone follow up her work there, she said they would love to have another volunteer there, and put me into contact with Andrea, a woman that works at the prison. Lily then left me a notebook filled with the work she did there and told me she would love it if i continued her work.

I called Andrea a couple weeks ago and asked for a meeting. Lisa, an educacion volunteer that lives in Concepcion said she would love to get involved. I was glad I would have a partner in crime (haha)as well so Lisa and I met Andrea in Concepcion last week at a little restaurant to talk about prison work. In the prison there is a school and every morning the inmates have classes with Andrea. If the school system behind bars is anything like the school system on the outside, i am sure it´s not very stimulating and is not really helping these men with rehabilitation. I gave Andrea my little peace corps resume that has a list of the topics I can give lessons and facilitate activities on:

Self esteem
Good Communication
Leadership
Working in Groups and Team work
Values
Gender Roles and Stereotypes
How To Look for Employment-making resumes, etc
Sexuality-sexually transmitted diseases and basic education
HIV and AIDS
Parenting-Motherhood and Fatherhood-IS it a job for me?


I gave brief descriptions of sample activities and lessons with each topic and when she looked at the list, she became really excited and started circling everything on the page, expressing that she wanted us to cover everything. She asked if we could come once a week, every Monday from 9-11am. We said we would start the coming Monday and as long as we had topics to cover we would follow through with that schedule.

On Monday morning I woke up, went for a run, then came home full of sweat and B.O only to realize the water was out-a normal occurance when there´s a storm like there was on Sunday. The electricity was out as well, and I hadn´t saved any water to bucket bathe in so sponge bathed using a small bottle of water that was in my fridge. Then I got ready by candle light and packed my things, headed out the door and got a bus to Concepcion.

I was on a very slow bus that stopped every 3 min or so to load on more passengers. People were standing in the aisles and I could barely see out the window. I was afraid I might miss my stop and pass the prison so when i figured we were getting close, I squeezed and pushed my way up to the front of the bus and asked the driver to please let me off at the prison. when i said that, everyone on the bus became wide-eyed and stared at me like "why is this white girl getting off at the prison?" As soon as I got off, i saw Lisa standing on the side of the road, waiting for me to enter the front gate to the prison. I told her how everyone had stared at me on the bus and she said she got the same reaction.

We went to the front entrance and were met by Andrea. The guard simply asked her who we were and she said "they´re peace corps volunteers" and with nothing more than that, we walked through the gates without being searched or questioned. We handed him our IDs and walked to a table where there were more guards. I thought, "oh, here is where we are going to get searched or questioned" Nope...all they wanted was our cell phones and keys. Lisa asked if there was anything else we weren´t allowed to take in, like our scissors or paper clips, etc that were in our backpacks. "no, just the cell phones and keys" they said. Lisa and I could not help but smirk as we were led upstairs, past all the holding cells and into an room that looked like a classroom. We got settled in and began setting up.

One by one the inmates started coming into the classroom and sat down. They were dressed in every day clothes, not uniforms, which was another surprise. They sat in their desks with their pens and notebooks in front of them and had big grins on their faces. Some of them asked questions like who we were and where we were from. About 30 men between the ages of 18 and 45 entered the room. There was no guard, Andrea was no where to be seen and Lisa and i stood there wondering when we should start. Finally I asked "is this everyone?" and when several heads nodded I started introducing myself and then Lisa introduced herself. Eventually Andrea came in the room and so did another teacher. I didn´t feel unsafe in the least bit but I could not believe that with all the guards with huge machine guns walking around, there weren´t any near us. I actually felt safer without the men with guns around and it made it feel more like a natural school setting and probably made them feel more like students instead of criminals.

Our first lesson was on Working in Groups and Team work. We started the lesson at 9:30 with an ice breaker activity called Human machine. We divided everyone into 6 smaller groups and each group had to make a machine with their bodys and each member had to be a part of the machine, working together to make it work. Every group participated and were very animated. They made planes, helicopters, cars and motorcylces out of their bodies. There was so much laughter in the room as each group presented its machine to the class, i knew right away what a fun group this would be. At the end of the activity I had the group that formed a helicopter stand in front of the class, and I took away the man that was the chopper part. I asked "what will happen to this helicopter now?" and they all responded "it will crash" and then I said " and what if this man here, takes over his part, will the machine still work?" and they said yes but it wouldn´t be as strong as before. They began to immediately discuss the topic of teamwork and they responded very well to questions like "what happens if there is a group of people working on something together and one person leaves the group?" This is how we introduced our topic for the day.

We then did two more longer activities related to team work and working in groups and they loved them. At the end of the lesson, we divided up into two large groups, one with Lisa, one with me. I asked each person to think of a word that describes how they felt about the activities today. Nobody could express just one word. Everyone wanted to say thank you to us, to tell us how much they appreciated us coming and working with them, that their own families don´t even come see them and how interesting what we Americans have to teach is. I thanked them for being such great participaters and told them we would be happy to come back once a week. They were thrilled we were coming back.

When we were led out of the prison, we walked by as the inmates were being led back to their cells. they were not locked up or being led in a line. It seemed almost as if this was their home. They smiled and were joking with the guards and the guards seemed to be a in a good mood too. They waved to us and said "adios profesora" I turned to Lisa and said "man, even in prison people in Paraguay just always seem happy and relaxed" Then we were led downstairs to the woman´s ward to retrieve our cell phones and keys. Right next to us were the cells for the woman prisoners. There were 3 woman standing at the gate holding packs of cigarettes in their hands asking Lisa and I for a light, then asking us for money, then saying things like "what, you don´t talk? What are you doing here?" They were scary looking to say the least. They showed signs of drug heavy abuse such as missing teeth, nappy hair, skinny bodies and sunken in eyes. Andrea whispered to me that they don´t work with the woman, that "they are very difficult to work with" I thanked my lucky stars that Lisa and I were working with the male prisoners instead.

We walked back to the front gate, got our IDs back and told Andrea we would see her next week to talk about Leadership. Since I was only 2k from Concepcion, i decided to go into concepcion and have lunch with Lisa and do some shopping. There are nicer grocery stores than in Horqueta and faster internet. Working once a week at the prison is something I am very excited about, it´s a nice break from my routine in Horqueta.

Some Paraguayans seem really confused as to why I want to volunteer there. Some people have even said the prisoners don´t deserve it, they already have better lives than most Paraguayans because they have food and school and a roof over their heads. My host brother Gino even said "well, maybe I should rob a store so I can be in your class too" Which made me mad because he gets more of my time and attention than any Paraguayan. But I understand these are the same aruguements and views people share in the U.S. What I plan to tell people is that of any group of people or individuals I have worked with, no one has made me feel so appreciated and been so grateful for my time and effort than the people at the prison. And besides, they will never be able to cancel my lessons for rain or other "commitments" and many other excuses I get from people. As a social worker, I am loving the opportunity to get to explore this kind of work because who knows, maybe one day I will want to work in a juvenil hall or rehabilitation program, having this on my resume will certainly grab some attention!